Congrats to Casa who has finally decided to settle down and is now engaged! He popped the question at his girlfriend's 21st party last night during the speeches in front of all their family and friends (I missed it though because I was running late :( ) She stupidly said yes because obviously she doesn't know that he's really a huge queer.

Congrats dude, all the best :)

props dude... I guess that means you haven't shown her the forums so she can sit your usual wit and charm. Pro tip: don't.

casa you're finished!!! congrats

21? gees I hadn't even heard of sex at 21

props dude... I guess that means you haven't shown her the forums so she can sit your usual wit and charm. Pro tip: don't.

hahaha trogd0r

casas wit extends to one thing

that f***ing emoticon ^^^ up there

casa thats pissweak infront of everyone, how is she gonna say no in front of everyone and ruin her own party you f***en rookie! BAD decision unless you had secretly spoken to her about it before hand and got the a-ok which means youre a fag poser who wanted to suck your inlaws genitals

props dude... I guess that means you haven't shown her the forums so she can sit your usual wit and charm. Pro tip: don't.

Yeah, cause that always ends badly..

Congrats Casa, gl!

Congrats dude!

But yes, poor form doing it infront of people and extra poor form for doing it on her birthday. But ya did it and I am sure that is all that matters :)

gratz to casa

lolz to trog and pete

Gratz man

Well done everybody!

mad props

haha pete

Congrats! Doing it for her 21st was a cute idea. Must've taken some balls to do it in front of everyone tho!

im sure he had a pretty good idea she was gonna say yes, otherwise why ask? not the kinda thing you do randomly

+ 1 congrats!

21! Jeez early starter.

not rly, i proposed to my wife when she was 21.

Grats dude

get her a ring with a on it

congratumylations!!

"another one bites the dust, de de de, another bites the dust!" :)

wow are the training wheels even off her bike yet dude

On a slightly related note, how does everyone here feel about marriage? Is it necessary any longer? What are the benefits?

Don't kill a happy thread.

Marriage is awesome. But I wouldn't have said yes to marriage at 21.

As for the benefits? No benefits at all really. Marriage doesn't 'change' anything and those who think it will aren't ready to get married.

Have been with my husband since I was 19 - didn't get proposed to until I was 24 and even then if he had asked before I doubt I would have said yes.

Not being ready for marriage doesn't mean you don't love the person or want to be with them

imo there was a shotgun.

Marriage doesn't 'change' anything and those who think it will aren't ready to get married.

I disagree, marriage does change the dynamics of the relationship.. It doesn't change how you feel about the person if that's what you're referring to..

Don't kill a happy thread.

I rescind the question.

If you dont intend on having children I dont see the point of marriage.

Why should children change the equation.

EDIT: (sorry, couldn't help myself)

slaps forehead, getting married has nothing to do with having kids..

It's about committing your love to that person and wanting to spend rest of your life with them..

Get a clue you stooge.

Congrats mate, good to see you found someone to settle down with.

Remember..pre-nup :P

Marriage? Are you out of your mind!?

You can't really ask whether it's relevant or necessary or whatever. Some people believe in marriage, some people don't. Each to their own. (If I was single) and I met a guy who said straight up front that he didn't like the idea of marriage, I would no longer be interested. There's no right or wrong answer. If you want to get married, do. If you don't want to get married, don't.

Congrats mate ... props to proposing on her 21st :)

It's about committing your love to that person and wanting to spend rest of your life with them..

So you cant do this without a ring and a certificate?

high five wognes!

So you cant do this without a ring and a certificate?

Marriage is a legal & public commitment. Yes you can do it without a ring and certificate

Crakaveli, you can but many people prefer to take it a step further to show their commitment..hence the ring and wedding..

props casagrande - dont listen to them, 21 is fine, every generation before ours was pretty much married by 18

as for doing it infront of the family etc, pfft
im sure hes got enough brains to know whether or not she was going to say yes/no - you drop a few hints in the months leading up to it and you get the general idea
most chicks are gagging for it anyway

also, keeping dates close together is a mans way of remembering.
If I could get married on my girlfriends birthday I would ;)

Marriage is awesome. But I wouldn't have said yes to marriage at 21.

because there was just so many shlongs left to shlurp?

You can't really ask whether it's relevant or necessary or whatever. Some people believe in marriage, some people don't. Each to their own. (If I was single) and I met a guy who said straight up front that he didn't like the idea of marriage, I would no longer be interested. There's no right or wrong answer. If you want to get married, do. If you don't want to get married, don't.

Sorry if it came across the wrong way - I was merely asking for people's opinions. I understand that marriage is right for some and not for others, and I am curious as to why (if people know themselves). It recently was brought to my attention that there is another option to marriage (i.e. commitment and marriage aren't the same thing), and I was curious to hear other people's opinions on it.

if you didnt know what the bird was going to say before you asked her, you are doing it wrong

slaps forehead, getting married has nothing to do with having kids..

It's about committing your love to that person and wanting to spend rest of your life with them..

Get a clue you stooge.

Congrats mate, good to see you found someone to settle down with.

Remember..pre-nup :P

Hey hey calm down big fella no need for name calling.

I offered my personal opinion nothing more.

I dunno I just dont see the point myself. It's rather ironic that most of the unmarried couples that I know that have been together for the longest.

Good on ya, c***head.

Pix please.

sup arsewipe

Was talking to casa?

I dunno I just dont see the point myself.

All good. No one needs to get married. No one married has a better or more committed relationship than someone unmarried. elvis and I were together for 6 years before we got married. I think less people should get married. It is obvious a lot of people have no respect for it, or idea what it is about

Congrats Casa

Gratz Casa
Best of luck!

im sure hes got enough brains to know whether or not she was going to say yes/no - you drop a few hints in the months leading up to it and you get the general idea

been giving it some thought hey ? :P

Congrats.

propsmosexual...

Good to see the young lad has found his happy place ;)

now u can finally lose ur v plates casa awwww yeah grats bro grats

congrats, welcome to the end of the road, yawn!!!!!!!

Thanks for all the grats. I'm not retarded as some of you seem to think I am (probably going off qgl alone I can see how you would though). Not to blow smoke up my ass but there was no way she was going to say no, I have one word for you pro poopsockers "tiffany".

I met her when she was 19 and I was 24. Now I'm 26 and gotta remember, we aren't getting any younger! Though that's not the only reason. The other reason of course is for a bucks party. I went to 4 last year and can't wait to have one of my own yyyyyeeeeeeeeoooooooowwwww!!

Ps to prove further how not dumb I am, we have decided to have the wedding on 5th Feb 10 which is my birthday.

BUT HOW ARE YOU GOING TO GO BACK IN TIME FOR THE WEDDING!?!1

there was no way she was going to say no, I have one word for you pro poopsockers "tiffany".

Is that slang for "knocked up". lols.

grats tho :)

Two years and already asking her to marry you? :o You asked because you weren't getting any younger? Dude!

been giving it some thought hey ? :P

I got enough problems, pal

choosing your own birthday for wedding..that just shows how bad your memory is.. ahah

sif for ya birthday u want to do a wedding anniversary... man its your birthday the only day of the year you can do anything you want with or without her!!! OMG!!!

I can't believe how far ahead casa thought. Think about it you retards. If every anniversary is also his birthday then he isn't going to have to do s*** with her.

Amazing. You're already taming her.

Think about it you retards. If every anniversary is also his birthday then he isn't going to have to do s*** with her.

LOL?

Other way around, now he will have to spend every birthday doing wedding anniversary crap with his Mrs.

Kat it's just a joke you tard. We haven't even been together for 2 years!

If you put a time on how long you've been together with someone before you marry them, then you may as well put a time on how long your going to be married for. When you know, you know.

Also greazy knows the score. I've already got Valentines day sorted, being my dads birthday, his dads birthday, and my grandparents wedding anniversaries, I haven't done anything for valentines day ever, and fortunately the girl knows that and has to deal with it, I'm just covering all bases.

Just sounds far too young for her.

Met at 19, less then 2 years. Sounds like her first long term relationship and you guys are still in the honeymoon period.

It REALLY sucks when you get 2 - 3 years into a relationship then the shine comes off and the s*** really hits the fan. I'm assuming you 2 are already living together?

they're probably greek or something. they have boners for getting married early

italian, but same dif :)

Chub you would prefer a chick whos been with another dude for ages before? They're all f***en damaged goods mate.

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I haven't done anything for valentines day ever, and fortunately the girl knows that and has to deal with it, I'm just covering all bases.

Good idea.

all you clowns who are slagging getting married 'early' are ignoring the fact that teq pointed out - every single generation in history has gotten married around the 20 mark except for this current generation.
Getting engaged at 21 is perfectly normal.

every single generation in history

Is not a justification for anything.

Prior to there being sewers every generation of people threw s*** out the window and lots of people died of annoying things like cholera...

lol, nice analogy ... not much.

Getting married is a tradition, so it is entirely relevant to compare the history of the tradition when making observations about what is 'normal'.

Throwing s*** out the window isn't very traditional from where I'm sitting.

yeah i don't really think that's quite the same. one is advent of technology and the other is the shift in social trends, not really related obes.

Obes is just disagreeing with you because he got married a couple of weeks ago and he is 400 years old.

will your wedding be suitably massive and italian with a bajillion family members and such?

Obes hates marriage. Everyone knows this.

we made a list last night for s***s and giggles

my family (wogs) = 102
her family (kiwis) = 25

with inclusion of friends its notched up to exactly 2 hunge so we'll probably keep it at that, until I get in trouble for not inviting my grandfathers, brothers, uncles, great grand kids, sister in laws, best friend from high school.

Have the wedding in NZ near her home, so then you can get away with only inviting a handful of people.

Obes hates marriage. Everyone knows this.

Really? If he hated it so much, why did he get married?

Kat, why are you being so damn anti-internet.

Kat, having a "happy" marriage doesn't make you an expert >.<

PS, I cbf reviving that other marriage thread, but marriages certainly are the problem with a lot of people's relationships.

I'm sure casa will be fine though;

Who said I was an expert? Where did I say I had a happy marriage?
Are you reading my posts Billy?

Apples.

haha thanks will

ps. NZ chicks are HOT

Go casa! Marriage is awesome. I got married last year after 7 years being with each other and things have just gotten better and better. Don't let the naysayers and haters get you down.

casa start a sex jar. For the first year every time you get it on you put a dollar in the jar. After the first year, everytime you have sex you take a coin out. See how long it takes you to empty the jar.

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Chub you would prefer a chick whos been with another dude for ages before? They're all f***en damaged goods mate.

I'm speaking in general here, but I'd be more worried with marrying/committing myself to a young chick cause after a while they'll start wanting to go out and get more cock cause they didn't experience enough before.. all depends, sounds like she's a winner anyway simon, so wouldn't worry about it.

Haha none of you have met my girlfriend besides saint, boba and pharcyde, so they can be the judge on that :)

When I met her she was 19 going on 90. So very mature.

When I met her she was 19 going on 90. So very mature.

and casa was 24 going on 16, so they've both grown up since

I'm speaking in general here, but I'd be more worried with marrying/committing myself to a young chick cause after a while they'll start wanting to go out and get more cock cause they didn't experience enough before

..I don't think I've met a girl yet who has any desire to "experience" a lot of cock. Think you'll find most girls would rather just meet a decent guy as opposed to experiencing a bunch of average ones.

You're wrong.

Good luck with all your wedding plans!

Get your fiancée on to the wedding central forums. But don't blame me when she's posting there years after the wedding :)

For my bucks party myself and a bunch of mates (12 of us in total) hired a houseboat and lived it up for a long weekend. Best bucks evar.

Oh good god no. Tell her to stay away from wedding forums. Trust me if on nothing else, ever!!

Or you could try indie bride forums haha.

As Kat said, stay away from wedding forums. My sister asked me to help her find some info on wedding planning, so I linked her to brideonline coz it looked like it had everything on there. She joined up to the site and was then getting spammed with almost a hundred emails a day

You're wrong.

http://www.dailystatesman.com/photos/12/13/15/1213153-L.jpg


female NZ girls are hawt!

lols, yeah i'd wanna marry a slut. derp. Shes had 2 cocks before me, thats enough. And besides, you all keep forgetting that mine is the best so no chick would want any others.

what you wanna do is marry a chick who likes the occasional visit down town, if you know what i mean.



if you don't, i mean pussy ..

she's beached as bru

lols, yeah i'd wanna marry a slut. derp. Shes had 2 cocks before me, thats enough. And besides, you all keep forgetting that mine is the best so no chick would want any others.

way to talk about your fiance br0.

casa youre honestly talking in this thread like youre high on happy gas or something!?

2 at the same time?

This is the reason i keep coming back to the qgl forums.... so much lol

casa start a sex jar. For the first year every time you get it on you put a dollar in the jar. After the first year, everytime you have sex you take a coin out. See how long it takes you to empty the jar.

Haha, that's a really good idea. Wouldn't use coins though, they will go missing. Use match sticks or something.

It's funny how sex goes up and down in a long term relationship for no real reason. Just go with the flow.

It's called "the jelly bean jar" you put one in every time you throw the leg over before the wedding, and eat one every time after.

Congrat Wogness all best mate ...

nice one dude.
21 is good too cos youll still be kinda ballin once you're getting crusty

casa, I'm assuming your misses is pakeha?

Either way, kiwi women are awesome. Most are very mature from a young age.


*cough*waits for invite*cough*

if you can take photos you can come :P

I can give you some contact details for people who do that, people with experience in that industry..Won't be paying ten so thousands for photos either

The guys who did my photos are awesome :D If you want their details!

is that the same person who did the .zip ones?

hahahahaahahahh damo. ah that was a good zing.

Na, these guys actually fix up flaws and make you look half decent

kat i think u look gorgeous no matter what amount of clothing youre wearing

love exitence xoxoxo

Meh... you could get a professional effect with bubble baths or the upside down tomb raider manouvre.

as long as it has a heart beat hey exis :P

ps 21 is too young imo but congrats anyways

Chub you would prefer a chick whos been with another dude for ages before? They're all f***en damaged goods mate.

So the fiance grinds her teeth? Experience is not all a bad thing, too much is.

oi rolly hook me up mate, can you send me an email about it simon at lad group dot com dot au

I'll get back to ya mate, just have to suss out which ones did it. Can't remember who did what