I've always thought this to be a true saying.. Particularly when it comes to chix.

So what are you supposed to do if you meet a chick and she has done things in the past and you're not comfortable with it? Hold it against her and break it off? Or hang in there and hope she won't do it again? I mean it's hard enough trusting people these days, but as soon as I hear dodgey s*** I'm like, f*** THIS, I'M OUT.

Anyone else had this dilemma? Is it better to let your guard down and find out?

"she has done things in the past and you're not comfortable with it?"


ie: ? sex? , you'll get used to it.

needs more information dude

then we can decide for you

The girl I've been seeing for the last six months I'm borderline on breaking up with because I just can't believe her. Her word is worth nothing, she can never keep it.

Yet at the same time, I like her. She's been like that as long as I've known her, so I don't know why I'm still hanging around, and gave her a chance. As much as I'd like her to change, I know she won't.

It's easier to hope and try again than break it off and admit defeat.

Who cares just use her for sex on tap for a bit then trade her nasty ass in for a better model.

Hold it against her and break it off?

Hold it against her, yes. Break it off.. no you might want to hold it against her later on.

My first rule of dating: never ever ask ANYTHING about their pasts. No good can come of it.

The worst thing about chicks is they're all obsessed about the guys' past though. I don't wanna talk about that either, for same reasons.

Leave the past in the past, no airing of dirty laundry.

Umm, it's happened a few times, so I'm starting to think it's my fault.. or maybe I'm doing the right thing because I know there is someone better out there?

Examples might be done more things sexually, i.e. - I once had a chick tell me "I've pretty much done everything." Which while was a bit of a turn on, I knew she wasn't a keeper.

Or cheated on her ex-bf. That's not something you wanna hear is it?

Also, drug use might be another example. "Oh my best friend OD'd and died on coke, I'll be honest with you, I've done LOTS of drugs, I'm clean now though."

Umm, and mental illness. If she's there telling you how her mum is crazy and on medication and at the same time acting pretty weird, might be a good time to call it quits?

if I said you had a beautiful body would you hold it against me?

ahaha

welcome to the world of dating 25+

its all leftovers my friend, get used to it.








you lose

if you're asking here gimpy, u have no clue

damn luckily my girlfriend and i were only 18 when we met, i've told her my past which isn't really much haha and she has told me hers which is the same, we both hadn't had any boy friends or girlfriends before each other,

scoggex has a good point there about 25+ haha

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might be a good time to call it quits?

gimpy, I agree with pretty much everything you said.

There's not much more of a turn-off than hearing about how loose they have been in the past or boasting about how they've cheated on someone in the past or of mental illness and/or drug abuse. Don't get me wrong, I'm not against people who do drugs in moderation, but when people boast about the past like that, it's time to take a walk!

I find female insecurity to be one of the biggests turn offs.

damn luckily my girlfriend and i were only 18 when we met, i've told her my past which isn't really much haha and she has told me hers which is the same, we both hadn't had any boy friends or girlfriends before each other,

id be interested to hear you tell her the present

wtf?

id be interested to hear you tell her the present

me too :P

hey f*** you pal

I gave some pretty extreme examples I guess. But like, if you treat someone well maybe they will reciprocate it? There is always exceptions to the rule, i.e. - psychopaths. But yeah, I hear ya SCOGGEX, 25+ dating is leftovers. That's probably why they are mainly rejects. The good ones are few and far between, or already dating another loser. Maybe I should just stay clean shaven and go for younger chix. I still look young enuf to get 25- :D

But I'm just curious, if someone has done some f***ed up s***, maybe they have learnt and are just waiting for someone to show them respect and in turn wouldn't repeat what they have done in the past? Worth the gamble? I mean anyone can f*** you over, regardless of how good it starts and how "clean slated" they are.

That being said, the wrong girl can seriously ruin your life. Which is what scares me.

Dude, if her past is all wrong and freaking you out now, it's probably not going to get any better.

PS: Don't date chicks called Manlissa.

Trust me, just get it over with and leave her now. You will never get used to it and she will end up consuming your life. No matter how hard you try to block out what she has done it will always be in the back of your head and it will never go away. When the sex dies down and the love goes away all you will be left with is the reminder of all the s*** she has done in the past.

If you want to be with her for the long term then my advice would be to tell you it's all about trust. If you trust her then by all means give it your all. However if you're already seriously pondering her worth (onus is on the word seriously) then maybe it's time to let her go.

25+ women aren't all leftovers, perhaps you are just looking in the wrong places for the ones that don't have the problems such as the ones you have mentioned. Remember that the messed up ones are still hanging around seedy pubs and clubs looking to pick up. Maybe it's time for a change of scenery to find a change of class.

A leopard will change its spots, but only through it's own volition. If you tell her to love sex or drugs less, it won't happen. You just have to trust she likes you enough not to do the same things to you. If that's too much of a gamble, give her a miss mate. It's all about trust.

sometimes the best chicks are the ones over 25.. they have been there and done that and made mistakes and learned from them.

as you get older your tolerence lvl of there past stuffs will increase.. while the tolerance lvl of there current problems will decrease.

if she has her head screwed on then forget the past..

to me is sounds like she had a good bit of f***ing time before she met you and your jealous? silly... her past is just that.. HER past.. its got not alot to do with you.. if your not comfortable with it pack up your comfort blanket and move on.. sounds like you need to grow up more then her?

Yeah I'm not saying I'm perfect, or have a perfect past either. But I still believe I'd be capable of a happy relationship with the right girl.

I think most heavy computer users are probably less social than others out there which I feel most girls want. (social characters meeting all their friends and relatives) Regardless of all these "geeks are the best boyfriends" crap that is going around. To that I say, oh really? You want a guy who would prefer to stay home playing games or surfing the web than going out drinking with your boring friends?

Remember that the messed up ones are still hanging around seedy pubs and clubs looking to pick up. Maybe it's time for a change of scenery to find a change of class.

This is true, but where is good place to meet "good girls" these days? Things have changed so much, it's kinda like we're pioneering. When you can meet girls over the phone/internet, it's a new terrority.

I do accept things they have done in the past, I just seem to link it to other girlfriends and then pigeon hole them into the same sort of girl box, which I think is wrong. So therefore I think, I'm in the wrong and I should just suck it up and give them a chance rather than judge them before I get to know them. It's a trust issue, that I have. Which I'm trying to fix. But it's based on logic which most people would agree with. So it's gets a bit confusing.

It seems the happiest couples are those who just go with it regardless and not worry about this kinda stuff.

To that I say, oh really? You want a guy who would prefer to stay home playing games or surfing the web than going out drinking with your boring friends?

gimpy, most geeks i know use computers as a past time, a hobby. i admit that i am both a nerd and a geek, but i would much prefer to spend the night hanging out with the girlies friends.

Even these days 20-23 yr old have "been there" "done that"

Its all f***ed :D

hey guys........SEX!!

i'm in the weird position of always attracting girls older than me, i think they like to use me to fulfil their fantasies of having a white aussie deep blue-eyed lover

sux2b ne1 else but me

Gimpy, after reading a few of your above posts you should ask yourself this:

Are you happy with your own life, do you generate your own happiness?
Do you feel 'complete' when not in a realationship?

If you answer no to any of the above questions, do you think it is fair on the other person to be responsible for your happiness?
Is it fair on you to be responsible for their happiness?

Call it quits before it gets really hard to.
If you cant trust her word, then there is nothing to the relationship. Would you like to be sitting at home while she is out, wondering if she is cheating on you because she promised she wouldnt?

You want a guy who would prefer to stay home playing games or surfing the web than going out drinking with your boring friends?

A good sign of a good relationship is their friends. If you get along with their friends then you probably are a good match, as you can be 'a friend' also.

It seems the happiest couples are those who just go with it regardless and not worry about this kinda stuff.



A lesson I have learnt: Do not try and assume how happy a couple is. For all you know it could be all show, behind closed doors things can be much differnt. Dont use other relationships as benchmarks for your own.

welcome to the world of dating 25+

its all leftovers my friend, get used to it.

HAHaha, YOU lose.

Aparntly studies have shown that it takes roughly 7 partners per person to find someone compatible enough to stand the test of time.
I spose, if your scared to live alone you would take the first person that comes along.. >;P

It is better to live alone then in a loveless relationship!

This is true, but where is good place to meet "good girls" these days?

Places that share common interests as your own.
If you like going to seedy pubs and getting sloshed alot, chances are you'll meet somone you like at seedy pubs..
If you like using the interweb and playing with geeky toys, internet dating ftw.

That being said, the wrong girl can seriously ruin your life. Which is what scares me.

Only if you let it. Your life is yours, not anyone elses. You need to risk in order to gain. SURE dont let your guard down straight away, also dont keep it up for a long time. (unintended pun)
Some chicks will hurt you, after a bit you will find one that dosnt. You will probably hurt some chicks. The way of life. It isnt fair on ether person if both sides arnt in it 100%.

My first rule of dating: never ever ask ANYTHING about their pasts. No good can come of it.

The past is what makes a person. Understanding someones past helps you understand them!

I'm with you persay, older girls seem to be my flavour. Current gf is 29, I'm 25 :) Age differance is meh.

I guess I'm just a big pussy.

Even if I met the right girl I'd probably find a reason why she wasn't suitable cause my brain is totally f***ed from all the bad chicks I trusted in the past.

So in that scenerio, I should seek therapy? Or just suck it up and trust some random tart?

toll

the joke isnt really on me cos well when I say leftovers I mean that realistically somebody else has already popped their cherry in sixteen different ways etc

not necessarily a bad thing. I mean that if the gimpster is dating chicks 25+ the reality is that they have already been there, done that and got the t-shirt probably with some well hung black man. On the plus side some of those black men teach then some awesome techniques. Chicks dont develop mind-blowing oral tricks by practicing on lollipops huh?

sorry gimpy but you pretty much have to lower your standards after 25+ cos they just aint the smooth skinned, supple breasted vestral virgins that some guys expect. Then again, I've seen girls under 25 that have more stretchies and smellier boxes than girls in their late 30s lol

I suppose they have to put up with our expanding bellies and sagging nutsacks so I guess its a fair trade-off :D

I've been thinking lately maybe it's not all about monogamy, raising children, and getting a mortgage.

Those nasty, lying, abusive girls aren't _all_ bad. :)

Buggered if I know, that's why I posted this gay thread, to see what everyone else thinks these days. I mean happy families is fun and stuff, but what about the divorce rate and single mum statistic? I've met a single mum and she was really depressed because no guy wanted a bar of her. She was just happy I'd have a drink with her because as soon as dudes found out she had chicks, they bailed. (like I later did) haha

It just seems to me like the way we have been brought up is no longer relevant. And the way things are going, the traditional happy family is a rare thing. My parents are still together which I guess is a rare thing these days. Not many of my friends had the same "luxury". I don't really want kids, let alone to have kids with someone, then have the relationship end a few years later.

Just seems like s*** is different these days, yet people expect you to have a partner or a wife and I'm well I haven't met her yet. And they are like, well you're still young, you'll meet someone when you lease expect it! HHAHAHA f*** OFF RIGHT THERE. I have met lots of girls when I "least expect it" but that doesn't mean I'm going to marry them.

Other friends have said they'd kill to be single again. Maybe the grass is greener on the other side.

sorry scoggex, I was just trolling a little :D

A leopard will change its spots, but only through it's own volition. If you tell her to love sex or drugs less, it won't happen. You just have to trust she likes you enough not to do the same things to you. If that's too much of a gamble, give her a miss mate. It's all about trust.

quoted for perfect wording/truth.

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pavenoob;
damn luckily my girlfriend and i were only 18 when we met, i've told her my past which isn't really much haha and she has told me hers which is the same, we both hadn't had any boy friends or girlfriends before each other,


maxe;
id be interested to hear you tell her the present

brett;

http://unix.org.au/~brett/lollerskates.gif

I know pavenoob in a completely diff. way to maxe etc and that's some f***ing hilarious inside joke kinda s***.

maybe you should just stop dating escaped mental patients

Yes, it is almost impossible to find a 21+ year old woman who hasn't been f***ed six ways from sunday and is worth dating and not in some crackpot religion

But I don't think that has anything to do with how trustworthy the person is. Guys want what's called the virgin whore complex, ie. their woman appears all proper and innocent around other people, but goes off like a firecracker in the sack.

imho finding a trustworthy person (even as it seems cheating etc has become more acceptable) is still relatively easy.

If her past makes you think you can't believe a damn thing that comes out of her filthy mouth, then perhaps keep going out with her or whatever but be on your guard.

also chicks at nightclubs are fun to look at but they are not real people

brett you should write a song and dance about it

to be honest.. the only way to have a decent relationship.. or chance at a decent relationship.. is to start off with total trust... and be totally forgiving of anything she claims to have done

just be clear to them that you value trust in a relationship

and if they break that trust then bai bai

premisconceptions about there past will only lead to pain

Wow you guys sure do have a very warped view of women

Gimpy, i think you need an overseas trip to get your head straight about all this. It's a big world out there, don't con yourself into thinking that a tiny number of women in Brisbane are representative of all womankind.

Wow you guys sure do have a very warped view of women

She's an alright bloke for a chick

with a sig like that, i hardly think you're in a position to comment.

with a sig like that, i hardly think you're in a position to comment.

Why do you even bother? Honestly move on.

brett you should write a song and dance about it

"There once was a qgler named paveway,
he couldn't decide on what was his way,
he drove a skyline,
but still couldn't make up his mind

he boinked some bird,
and she still wasn't his third,
only when his girl thought he was gay,
that he told her she had been betrayed

he'd f***ed some ho
and he just couldn't hide it, so..."

step left 2 3 4, step right 2 3 4, spin, touch your knees.

"he was a lying cheater,
ohh but he never beat her,
her fake smiles made her ill,
one day she just wanted to KILL"

stab motion, step left 2 3 4, die 2 3 4

---------------------------------------------

Bleh, all women have a past of various types. Each have their own personality.

I'm 19 and there's chicks who are 14 who have more of a past then me, I look at them like WTF! But really, I care little. You either care for a person or don't (no I don't date 14 year olds).

I'll have my fun with the 16 year olds for now (some are still virgins, yummy), but eventually I'll have to deal with serious relationships. Just remember, wrap your tool!

I dated my ex, year younger then me, for a year. She is way into serious relationships, her past was a major yawn. It was just a****** ex's. I fortunately don't have the problem of being an a****** ex, and am welcomed to her parents place at any time (her dad is a mad bloke, I never knew a Mitsu Express van could drift!).

Women, are women. Men are men, we're all here to f*** like silly and make kiddies! And those kiddies will become men and women and f*** like silly to make more kiddies.

Enjoy yourself, a short relationship often turns into a very long one without you worrying. If you really don't care about her, f*** her silly and move on. If you do care, don't treat her like a puppy. Give her the right about of space, spoil her at the right times and she'll adore you like a god.

Edit: P.S. I agree with Korbs, the world is massive man, just go and sit at the airport on a saturday morning. Watch the beautiful exotic birds from all around the world walk past you, and if you're game, get some numbers. Could show them the "Real Australia". Heck, give me a lift there, I'd be up for some wild action from around the world!

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brett you should write a song and dance about it

you had it coming, and you got smoked

"There once was a qgler named paveway,
he couldn't decide on what was his way,
he drove a skyline,
but still couldn't make up his mind

he boinked some bird,
and she still wasn't his third,
only when his girl thought he was gay,
that he told her she had been betrayed

he'd f***ed some ho
and he just couldn't hide it, so..."

step left 2 3 4, step right 2 3 4, spin, touch your knees.

"he was a lying cheater,
ohh but he never beat her,
her fake smiles made her ill,
one day she just wanted to KILL"

stab motion, step left 2 3 4, die 2 3 4

rofl ^

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you need a chick who has rooted around a bit because the youngsters are insecure emotional psychos.

at least with the older chicks they know sometimes you don't wanna see them and sometimes you do, and they are cool with that.

older chicks ftw!

So you can't go out with a chick who has had sex with too many guys because she is a slut, but you also can't go out which a chick who hasn't slept around because she would be a dud in bed?

What a very simplistic way of looking at it.

You want a girls opinion?

Its not about what shes done, its about who she is now. (Unless whatever shes done goes completely against alof of who you are and what you believe in.)

If she has had some full on life experiences, has learnt from them, grown, and is a better person because of them then what shes done isnt necessarliy a bad thing.

If she hasnt learn anything and it hasnt contributed to her being a better person in the present, or shes bringing it up bragging etc, then thats probably a good indication of what kind of person she is, which may not be a good thing.

When I was younger I did alot of things that at the time were ok, but now when Im a bit older and reflect back they are thngs that Im not happy about. But they have contributed to my experiences and who I am, and for the most part I think Im better for it.

If youre not feeling comfortable now, and you cant really see this going anywhere anyway - then why are you still bothering to hang around? End it now because time is only going to make things harder for you.

It comes down to the basic fact that most guys don't like the idea that their girlfriend/wife has had lots of sex with various other guys in the past. Guys don't like the idea of a female being more sexually active than themselves, hence the term slut being used on girls where a guy gets congratulated on doing the same. Its an inbuilt male insecurity.

Getting away from that issue, some girls and guys don't mind sleeping around. A lot more people do it and never tell anyone, so what you make think about a person may not be the exact truth. Not many people would admit to doing it and it isn't a direct indication of their fidelity with you. Basically I trust the person until that trust is broken. But one thing I don't do is go back after that trust is broken.

how did i get smoked? i wouldn't have told anyone if i cared

oh lightassasin, you have no idea. i sence you still feel like you still have some short comings when it comes to girls

check your phone you might have a missed call from a girl


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lightassasin, i realise you are cut but you're a bit short in stature to be paying me out, you twit

he can't pay you out because he's short...?

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At the end of the day a leopard can change their spots. Sadly you have to wait until they are ready

he knows what i am talking about :]

Obviously I need to enlist the help of a true master.

Ohh paveway can you help me with the girls. Your awesome experience with your one girlfriend who you cheated on trumphs me!

You could teach me how to get 1 girl, cheat on her, tell her that I cheated on her and become her bitch! YAY! I really want it, it really is where I want to be in a relationship, see as a scum of a human being who can't keep their word! YAY!

Missed calls? Yeah, I miss calls. That's because I'm busy and not desparate. How about you get some girls calling you? Ohh that's right, she has to pretend she's a telemarketer just in case your girlfriend is listening on the other end.

What is it with you guys? Does me being short turn you on? Wait, maybe it's another stupid moment where you cheat on your girl again! OMG NO! Stay away paveway, you couldn't handle it, your girl might actually leave you this time!

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haha for someone who i don't associate with, and e-left a forum cause he got called short, you seem to know the full story


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haha for someone who i don't associate with, and e-left a forum cause he got called short, you seem to know a fair bit about my personal life

Didn't you know? Everyone knows everything there is to know about personal lives on QGL.

yes actually i understand how you feel, this character has gathered the whole last 6 months of my life, from 2 posts made in a thread. it's amazing

Are you happy with your own life, do you generate your own happiness?
Do you feel 'complete' when not in a realationship?

Yup, happy with my life, and yup, generate happiness? Well I'm not depressed if that's what you mean. And yeah, I feel totally complete when not in a relationship. Internet porn ftw.

I think that's my problem. It's just easier and safer not to bother. I haven't been in a serious relationship for 4 years. Only short-term ones (none longer than 3 months). So if anything, I'm sick of being single and disappointed.

I seem to attract f*** ups. Like attracts like! :D oh wait.

O Paveway, I hope you sort things out...make a decision already! Don't hurt the poor girl...

And Gimpy -
I'm sorry to hear about your dilemma's with women. I agree with most of what Captivate has to say on the topic but I would like to add a thing or two.

Women (like men) are people (*awaits someone to debate this with me* :P). I TRULY think that both men AND women forget this a LOT of the time. There are a LOT of women out there with a LOT of interesting experiences, and there are a LOT of men out there with a LOT of interesting experiences. Some are bad experiences and some are good experiences - it's a matter of PERCEPTION and how you see the situation.

SOME of the men AND women learn from their experiences and move on...SOME justify why they believe whatever they did wasn't REALLY all that bad and stay the same. The ONLY way you will EVER find out if the person you are with is OK is if you give it a go; get to know your boyfriend/girlfriend. You will ONLY learn from experience. THAT IS LIFE. You trust a little, you see how it goes...you trust a little more, and you see how that goes. And if you're compatible and if you PERSONALLY see MORE BENEFITS THAN LOSSES in being with the person, then you stay with them.

That's my view on it anyway.

Ohh yes, I left because I'm short. That is the real reason. I'm shamed to say otherwise. I'm on the lists to have the operation to make me taller!

Maybe one day I can stand next to you and be proud. Us together with our girlfriends whom we cheated on and now are their bitches.

e-left? is this one of your new coined terms? quick call dictionary.com! Tell them that e-left is a word and it has a meaning!

I like to e-post to e-stir you e-idiots up. Obviously works, since you're all still running around fighting each other. I don't need to read the forums, people find it as funny as I do, and love to tell me how stupid you guys really are.

Go get your skyline man, put a big nismo sticker on it and make sure your cannon muffler is hooked on nice and tight yo! Cause we all know how much benifits they prove for a 80's NA R31 skyline... YEAH! fully e-sick bro!

agent, i'm not seeing anyone on the side, this tool^ somehow derived all of this from 2 posts

Sorry Paveway (*stands back and lets the men argue*).

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It seems that QGL'ers believe that the rule doesn't apply to them.

Here you have a bunch of people saying that yes, people can change, people can grow up, and people can learn from their mistakes. Then on the other hand these people are the first one to judge people and treat people on something totally irrelevant to the person or even worse, something they did a long time ago.

I still don't get it :) I doubt I ever will

gimpy, they aren't all bad, not even in clubs, i met my girlfriend in a club, thought it was going to be a once off, here i am like 2 years later. you just got to keep trying.

don't give up cause i reckon you will regret it when you are too old

people do change. my gf and i were completely different people when we met in high school, to the people we were when we started going out. and since going out, we have changed each other (small aspects at any rate) and we will keep changing to complement each other.

There was no way we would have ever been able to go out as the people we were when we were in high school (i was a geek, she was cool) but 6-7 years down the track im the cool one now and shes slightly less cool than me so it worked well!

on a serious note, people change. its a fact. the question is, do they want to change?

Guys want what's called the virgin whore complex, ie. their woman appears all proper and innocent around other people, but goes off like a firecracker in the sack.

FIRECRACKER! Hell yeah thats what I want!

They fail to realise that a woman doesn't have to have slept around to know what to do in the sack.

^
I can't believe I'm saying this...but agreed. If you know the other person and have open communication you will know what the other person likes and how to please them (and yourself) in that dept...

All you need is a few board games from the adult shop to help out with ideas

Honestly, your all a bunch of emotional wacko's

if your not comfortible with her past now you never will be and it will just eat you apart.
so get your f*** on and get out.
chicks LOVE to experiment when they're younger not to say they have but simply because they love doing new things, its exciting, you can either experiment with them :D or have a cry about it.

you will find the more YOU do the less you worry about her past. keep doing s*** till you dont even care
so have a few 3somes, do some chicks anal, but most importantly do some 30 year old chicks(imagine Obes with a dress cept with more hair), they f*** ya like no tomorrow and show you all sorts of goodies, they're not after long term s*** just one night etcetc.
'fridays' ive found to be great for older chicks.

so keep on trucking

you will find the more YOU do the less you worry about her past

I have to disagree. Humans are hypocritical by nature. This area is no exception

In my experience people who lie never stop lying, that's not to say they don't pick up their act though.

What about the womans opinion that if a guys been there and done that?
Like the old saying,if a guys been with a heap of chicks he's a stud,while if a girls been with a heap of guys she's a slut,i always found this amusing.

do some 30 year old chicks

i like your thinking sir.

you people need to get laid seriously.

What about the womans opinion that if a guys been there and done that?

I was with a guy who made claim to over 20 females. (The story changed a lot. I got told by someone else that apparently he only told me that figure to make himself look like a stud because he thought I was a slut and would be impressed. But at the end of the day you never can believe a word liars have to say. Plus I doubt they had any clue what they were talking about because that would mean he would have had to have told them the truth...haha not likely...) ANYWAY, back on topic.

I have also been with a bloke who has been with less than a handful of females.

If the belt notches aren't talked about and aren't on parade (still friends with ex's, see them lots, etc etc) I don't think the number matters.

It really is the way the person carries themselves and speaks of their past that matters to me.

your a woman, of course you'll disagree.
its not about being human, its about being male.

that said as we get older, get more and more experiance and mature then it becomes a non-issue

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All women are cheating, lying, bitches.

My 70 year old uncle once told me, "f*** 'em where you find 'em, and leave 'em where you f***ed 'em"

man you guys a so emo

Fuknukle - Ahh, so you are saying that the more a guy sleeps around the less he will care about the woman's past?

Not the more one person sleeps around the less they will care about their partners past?

I can agree with that :)
Women are a little funny in the head with things like that

Casa - he sounds like a catch

your uncles is very noble casa

I think the slut/stud thing came about because girls get offered penis all the time and it's very easy for them just to say yes. Yes please sir, I'll have some penis tonight. And next thing you know, your ex-gf is getting laid 2 days after you break up. f***ing away her pain. LOL Then you end up taking her back 3 days later.

As opposed to a guy who has to convince/beg a girl to f*** him and most of the time gets shot down cause he's said the wrong words or drank too much. Or better yet, meets a "reformed slut" or makes him wait months so she doesn't appear easy.

Doesn't seem very fair does it? :) And I reckon girls know this these days and use it to their advantage.

Depends on your friends too, a dude in my circle of friends used to pickup and cheat on his girlfriend all the time, but he wasn't called a stud, he was called a c***.

1 of my best mates of got quite a larger number of girls they have rooted, around 30 - 40 a piece, and i used to think it was cool back in highschool, i always used to hear the stories. but now he's like "how do i tell someone i really like, the truth that i have f***ed 40 girls..."

which is a good point

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My mate's Dad said to us once: "If women didn't have c***s we'd throw rocks at them."

Also while I was working a customer told me: "If women didn't have pussies we'd have no reason to talk to them." then "And I'll tell you another thing; they're all the same, they're red inside and they stink."

I'm not quite sure if the customer wasn't drunk, but he sure cracked himself up. Point being - live in the present but be aware of the past and the future. I can understand and accept a chick who has slept with other guys cause FFS I'd have plans to be one of those guys. If our relationship for some reason doesn't work out it'd be +1 for her.

Similar to the virgin whore scenario, I'm not quite sure how you can expect someone to have no past, an experienced and wise present and their future all with you. Past/present/future - pick two and those are the ones you have more chance of being happy in.

Guys want what's called the virgin whore complex, ie. their woman appears all proper and innocent around other people, but goes off like a firecracker in the sack.

Sounds like geek chicks to me... at least from personal experience :D

Wow didnt think this topic would result in this thread... Going and going and going - and in circles.

ffs its the madonna/whore theory

enough already

Circular arguments on QGL?

Never

Wow didnt think this topic would result in this thread... Going and going and going - and in circles.

Reminds me of the recent plane on a treadmill thread but at a smaller scale.

earth to tung - you're NOT cool, Tarocash pinstripe pants proove this!

also, i havemates that have nailed 50+ women, doesn't interest me - but I can see the fun in it.

i am cool, my mum says so :(

i dont wear tarocash anymore. i pimp it up in a white pinstripe suit :p

also, hi!

me too spidz :p

kill me now

yeah sure i can do that, how would you like it done?